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Let friends and coworkers know that you want to meet other lesbians and bisexuals. Have them invite you over for dinner or game night. Let them know you're just looking to make friends. Once you meet one or two lesbians that you get along with, you may end up meeting their friends and be welcomed into a whole new circle of people.

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Sure most people think of the Internet as a place to meet lesbians to date, but it can also be a great place to meet women for friendship. If your area has a church that is an "open and welcoming" congregation, that means the church is welcoming to gays and lesbians. Almost every major city has a neighborhood where gays and lesbians tend to live. When I was in my 20s, there was this hot female rock singer that we used to love.

We would go to her shows and sure enough, every time we did, there were plenty of other lesbians there. Keep your eyes peeled for shows and concerts that lesbians are likely to attend.

Pick up a copy of your local gay paper. There may be personals ads, a calendar of events or announcements for dances, plays, art shows, concerts and other activities.

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Check out one that interests you. The Lesbian Bar. Gay and Lesbian Center.

Through Friends. The Internet. I know I do. Lesbian athletes are actually appreciative when you come to their games. C herry Grove. The Cherry Grove I know is a helluva lot more fun and sexy. It took me way too long to understand the power of Cherry Grove and my younger self is very upset with me. Cherry Grove is full of all kinds of lesbians.

There are older, established lesbians sitting on the beach ready to passionately discuss business and books with you. There are creative, artistic lesbians who paint and get up early to catch the sunrise.

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There are wild party animal lesbians, hungover, looking chic with mega sunnies strapped to their faces. The beautiful part is everyone is united on the beach. So get on the fucking ferry, girl. An Animal Shelter. Looking to meet the dyke of your dreams with a heart of gold? Looking for a lady lover with her life strung gorgeously together? Head to the pet shelter ASAP, babes.

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The cream of the lesbian crop adopts their pets. It says something very profound about a woman who will adopt a vulnerable little animal and let them into her home. It also means they have their shit together.

A lesbian with a healthy, adopted pet is the kind of lesbian you want to date at this stage of your life, babe. She has a tender heart but is also wildly responsible. She takes walks outside. So start volunteering girl. Then you win, duh! A Feminist Book Club. Oh, I love me a book club! Plus, listening to a woman breaking down a novel gives you excellent in insight into her brain.

Plus a lot of lesbians use book clubs as a place to show off their fetish-y horn-rimmed glasses. An Ani Difranco Concert.

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I was bewildered. My hormones raged as I watched girls clutching hands, singing along to wise Ani lyrics. It was full of smart, politically-inclined, queer women who understand the poetry of politics! And you have a great opening line: True love always starts with a shared love of Ani Difranco.

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